Two men, a open heart, which way to go?

And there really is two men on my mind. Each offering a potential lifetime of happiness. Getting older, making the right choices while they still exist are just paramount. So one a stable, reliable man but a white man, who i find ever so attractive. The other, my best friend, of my own culture, who's been there when i needed him and we share so many similar life goals. Choices, choices. Life is good - which way to go.