The best conversation in the history of the world

Sometimes when it all starts going down the drain its tempting to say or do something to keep digging, creating an eclipse of a hole where you will never ever scramble out.

Now today i had the best conversation in the history of the world. In fact there is probably no one in the world that has ever done a turn around so great.

I listened to him, i didn't get emotional, i pretended i didn't even realize something was wrong and that all i wanted was friends. It was non threatening, highly civilized and he walked away with a sense of security.

So he had lots of kudos in the jar, plenty in that bank account of dreams and bonus points. With that one comment he made a withdrawal but he didn't close the account. I increased my value by being fabulous, by being busy, by having a fabulous time without him. He's putting his deposit's back in but at a high interest rate. 

As i said, the best conversation in the history of the world. I deserve a medal for this turn around.